With the increasing number of trust issuein nowadays, people seems are not trusty as before. In the spirit ofdiscretion, every one become a cautious person, everything they do, they arenot only discreet but careful as well. At the same time, this behavior somehowaffects couples, now the conjugal secret accounts have become a hot topic, anddifferent people have different opinions on this problem.
随着现在信任问题的不断增加，人们看起来不像以前那样可信了。为了谨慎起见，每个人都变成了小心谨慎的人，他们不仅谨慎，也小心翼翼的。与此同时，这种行为不知怎么地也影响了夫妻，现在夫妻之间的秘密账户成了热点，不同的人对这个问题有不同的看法。
People who are against with the conjugalsecret accounts hold the opinion that husband and wife should be honest to eachother. Once female and male are get marry, they are supposed to open heart toeach other, share everything together, including the money they earned.，and hide no secret from each other. Hence, a conjugal secret accountis not acceptable. This is a sign of disloyalty.
反对夫妻秘密账户的人认为夫妻应当对对方坦诚。一旦女人和男人结婚，他们就应当对对方敞开心扉，一起分享所有东西，包括他们赚到的钱，而且也不能有秘密瞒着对方。因此，夫妻秘密账户是无法接受的。这是不忠的表现。
While some people hold the opposite viewsthat couples should save a private room for each other. Getting married doesn’tmean that you have to expose everything to your soul mate; sometimes a littlesecret will makes relationship delightful. A conjugal secret account is not abig deal since everyone has the desire to buy something that their husband orwife doesn’t agree to, as long as they earn the money for the secret accountsby themselves.
然而有些人持相反的观点，他们认为夫妻间要为对方留点私人空间。结婚不意味着你要对你的灵魂伴侣暴露所有东西。有时候一些小秘密会让夫妻关系变得令人愉快。夫妻秘密账户并不是什么大事，因为每个人都有他们想买的而且他们丈夫或妻子不同意买的东西。只要他们秘密账户的钱是自己赚的就成了。
Weighing up these two arguments intoaccount, I prefer the latter one. You don’t have to show everything to yoursoul mate and a conjugal secret accounts are acceptable. Cheating isdisloyalty, but not a secret account.
权衡这两种观点，我支持后者。你不用什么都让你的灵魂伴侣知道，夫妻秘密账户是可接受的。出轨才是不忠，秘密账户不是。
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大学生作文分享 Betrothal Gifts 结婚聘礼(收藏)
There are always news about how many betrothal gifts a man has to prepare to get a bride in China. In fact, this is not only happened in China, many less developed countries also have the same problem. Though the marriage is about two families but only two people in love, but I can't agree that the groom have to paid overload to the bride's family to get marry.
在中国，关于一个男的要准备多少聘礼才能娶到新娘的新闻总是层出不穷。实际上，这不仅仅发生在中国，许多落后国家也有相同的问题。尽管婚姻是两个家庭之间的事而不仅仅关于两个相爱的人，但是我不同意新郎必须要付超额的聘礼给新娘家才能结婚。
The betrothal gifts in the old time of China were given to the parents in law by the groom to thank them for having been taking care the bride, and after being marry, the bride would have very few chances to come back to see them. So the betrothal gift was also called “bride price”. But this is not suitable for today’s situation. The young couple will always visit the parents and support them, it is unfair for the man to pay much money to the parents in law anymore.
聘礼在中国的旧时是新郎给岳父母用来感谢他们对新娘的养育之恩，而结婚之后，新娘便很少有机会回娘家看完他们。所以聘礼也被叫做“卖女钱”。但是这不适用于现代的情况。年轻小两口还是时常看完父母赡养他们，这时男人还要给岳父母付很多钱就很不公平。
On the other hand, the bride’s parents requirement too much bride price would rise the conflict between two families and then hurt feelings of the young couple. The marriage would come to a crisis.
另外，新娘父母要求太多的卖女钱会升起两个家庭之间的矛盾，继而伤年轻两口子的感情。婚姻会陷入危机。
Two people get marry should be based on love, not doing business. They have their own life to go on, the parents should give them the best blessings, not obstacles. The sound betrothal gifts and enough love, the marriage will have a wonderful start.
两个人结婚要建立在爱情的基础上，而不是做交易。他们有自己的生活要过，父母应该给他们最好的祝福，而不是障碍。合理的聘礼和足够的爱，婚姻会有一个美好的开始。
大学生作文分享 It Pays to Be Honest做人应该诚实(收藏)
Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a composition on the topic It Pays to Be Honest. You should write at least 120 words according to the outline given below in Chinese:
1．当前社会上存在许多不诚实的现象；2．诚实利人利己，做人应该诚实。
It Pays to Be Honest
Although honesty is believed to be a virtue, there are still dishonest people in our society. For example, some businessmen sell fake products to their consumers; some students cheat on exams; some applicants find jobs by using fake diplomas; some people tell lies to avoid responsibility or avoid being punished.
Dishonest people are short sighted. What they do brings harm not only to others but also to themselves. Those who sell fake products may make money at first, but once they were found out, no one will buy their products any more. Asaresult, they will lose their fortune. What is more, they will even be sent to prison. In contrast, honest people gain a lot. What they do brings benefit to others as well as to themselves. Those who always tell truth or keep to their promise can win trust and respect from their customers. Because they are trustworthy and respectable, everyone is eager to be their friend and everyone wants to buy their products. Undoubtedly, they will make a great fortune in the end.
In a word, honesty wins trust, respect and honor. So it is important that we should be honest in whatever we do and say.
大学生作文分享 Smoking and Health 吸烟与健康(收藏)
There are so many people smoke in the world, though they know smoking is harmful to their health, they just could not get rid of it. The number of smoker increases very year, the worse thing is that some smokers don’t realize they had bad effect on others. For the health, we should stay away from smoking.
在全世界有很多烟民，虽然他们知道吸烟对他们的健康有害，但是他们就是无法摆脱烟瘾。吸烟者的数量每年都在增加，更坏的事情就是一些烟民没有意识到他们对别人造成了不好的影响。为了健康，我们应该远离吸烟。
Once people smoke, it is hard for them to get rid of it. Take my father for example. My father started to smoke when he had the job annoyance at the age of 30. Since then, he smoked now and then, the tried to quit many times, but he never made it, because his mind told him smoke all the time. My father is a typical smoker, many smokers like him have given up quitting smoke.
人们一旦吸烟，就很难摆脱。拿我爸爸来当例子。我的爸爸在他30岁的时候，有很多工作上的烦恼，所以他吸烟了。从那时候起，他时而不时地吸烟，他多次尝试戒烟，但是都没有成功，因为他脑海里不断想要吸烟。我的爸爸是一名典型的烟瘾者，很多像他这样的烟民已经放弃了戒烟。
Smoking not only hurts one’s health, but also brings bad effect on others. The second-hand cigarette is harmful to the people who are around the smokers. The innocent people should not have to suffer from it. For everybody’s health, it is our duty to keep away from smoking.
吸烟不仅有害一个人的健康，也给别人带来了不好的影响。二手烟对在烟民附近的人非常有害。无辜的人们本来可以不用遭受这样的烟。为了每一个人的健康，远离吸烟，人人有责。
大学生作文分享 The Advantage of Internships 实习的好处(收藏)
Internships must be very familiar for every graduate. In China, it is our traditional to have internships before graduating. They think it is good for students to experience the social life in advance. Although it couldn’t receive the agreement of all people, but I think it will do good to students. There are several reasons to support my opinion.
每个毕业生肯定对实习很熟悉。在中国，毕业实习是传统。他们认为提前体验社会生活对学生是有好处的。虽然并不是所有人都这么认为，但我觉得实习对学生是有好处的。有几个理由来支持我的观点。
First of all, internships help students experience social life in advance. Nowadays, most students are the little prince and princess in their family. When they are studying in school, they seldom have the chance to connect with society. However, it is ironical that they have to enter the society when they graduate from university. At that time, internships give them the chance to do preparation before entering the society. At least, they will have a general understanding about the society in their psychology.
首先，实习可以帮助学生提前体验社会生活。如今，大多数学生在家里面都是小王子、小公主。他们在学校学习的时候，很少有机会与社会接触。然而，可笑的是，他们一毕业就要进入社会了。这样的话，实习就是给他们机会为进入社会提前做好准备。至少，他们在心中对社会可以有个大体的了解。
What’s more, students can figure out their direction on finding jobs through internships. As students spend most of their time on study, most of them are confused about finding jobs. They don’t know what kind of job they should find. Through internship, they can at least know their attitude on the job they are working, even they can figure out their career aim.
更重要的是，通过实习，学生可以弄清自己找工作时的方向。由于学生大部分时间都是花在学习上，对于找工作都是很困惑的。他们不知道应该找什么样的工作。通过实习，他们至少可以知道他们对于所实习的工作喜不喜欢，甚至还可以找到自己的职业目标。
In conclusion, internships have many advantages, especially for those students, who do not have any working experience. They should consider it as a good chance.
总之，实习有很多优点，特别是对于那些没什么工作经验的学生。他们应该把它当作一个好机会。
大学生作文分享 The Advantage and Disadvantage of Advertisement 广告的利弊(收藏)
With the development of informatization, people have more and more chances to choose the commodities they like. But the more goods exist, the more confusion people feel in choosing one. Therefore, advertisement stands out to take the responsibility for people to choose the products they prefer. But advertising has advantages and disadvantages. Some people are in favor of it, while some are on the contrary. As for me, I’m in the neutral place.
随着信息化的发展，人们有更多的机会选择自己喜欢的商品。但是商品越多，人们在选择的时候就越困惑。因此，广告站出来帮助人们选择他们喜欢的产品。但是广告既有优点也有缺点。有些人赞成，而有些人则相反。至于我，我在中立的立场。
On the one hand, advertisements help people have a better understanding about products. Advertisements always tell people the advantages and functions of the products. People can buy the things they want by reading advertisements. By the way, advertisements are free for consumers. Moreover, advertising is much more interesting than the instructions on the packaging box, because advertisements contain various factors, such as pictures, videos, voice plots and so on. Don’t you think it is a good way for choosing a product?
一方面，广告有助于人们更好地了解产品。广告总是告诉人们产品的优势和功能作用。通过阅读广告人们可以买到他们想要的东西。顺便说一下，广告对消费者是免费的。而且，广告也比包装盒上的说明书要有趣得多，因为广告包含各种元素，如图片，视频，情节等。难道你不觉得这是选择产品的一种好方法吗？
On the other hand, sometimes advertisements are tempting and deceptive. In order to attract the target customers, the advertiser will fill the content of decorating expressions, regardless of the filthy measures they have taken or the severe damages they may bring about. The advertisements always exaggerate the advantages and functions of the products. As a result, they mislead consumers to buy things that are not deserved.
另一方面，有时候广告是具有诱惑性和欺骗性的。为了吸引目标客户，一些广告商为了满足修饰产品的作用，而忽视他们使用的一些肮脏措施，或者他们所带来的严重损害。广告经常夸大产品的优势和功能作用。结果，他们误导了消费者购买不值得的东西。
To sum up, advertisements have the good side and the opposite side. If we just take them as a reference, it will be good. But if we depend on them to buy things, we may suffer losses in the end.
总之，广告有好的一面也有不好的一面。如果我们只是把它们当成是参考，广告会是好的。但是如果我们依赖于它们来买东西，我们最后可能会遭受损失。
大学生作文分享 The Elder Backpacker 老年背包客(收藏)
In Chinese tradition, when people are old, they trend to spend the time staying with the families and taking care of grandchildren. While the western old people choose to travel around the world and do their own stuffs. The change happens in China among the old generation and they chase special lifestyle as the western people.
在中国的传统中，当人们变老了，他们就倾向于花时间和家人呆在一起，照顾孙子。而西方老年人选择环游世界，做自己的事情。中国老一代发生了改变，他们追求西方这种特别的生活方式。
Recently, a Chinese elder lady won million fans in the social network account, because she shared her retired time with fans. She was a backpacker and she traveled with young students. She often shared her stories with these young people. The old woman’s lifestyle inspires the old people to chase the life they want. They can enjoy another free retired life.
最近，一位中国的女士在社交网络账号上赢得了百万粉丝，因为她与粉丝分享她的退休生活。她是一名背包客，和年轻学生一起旅游。她经常与这些年轻人分享她的故事。老太太的生活方式激励着老人们去追逐自己想要的生活。他们可以享受另一种自由的退休生活。
People often believe that the elder people’s life will not as excellent as the youth, because they are old and lack of energy. But they are wrong, as the saying that it is never too late to learn. The elder proves that they can enjoy the life as the young people do.
人们通常认为老人们的生活不如年轻人精彩，因为他们年纪大，精力不足。但他们错了，俗话活到老学到老。他们证明自己可以像年轻人那样享受生活。
Age is not the excuse to hinder us to move on. We can enjoy life anytime and anywhere.
年龄并不是阻碍我们前进的借口，我们可以随时随地享受生活。
大学生作文分享 端午节The Dragon Boat Festival(收藏)
TheDragon Boat Festival is one of the most popular traditional festivalscelebrated in China, which is on the fifth of the fifth lunar month, also knownas Duanwu Festival. It’s said that it is to commemorate the death of a Chinesepatriotic poet, Qu Yuan, who was snared by corrupt officials in ancient Chinaand finally committed suicide by drowning himself in the Miluo River to protestagainst them.
端午节是中国传统节日中最流行的节日之一，它是在阴历五月的第五天。据说这是为了纪念一个中国的爱国诗人屈原的死，他被中国古代腐败官员陷害最后在汨罗河投江自杀来表示抗议。
Thetraditions and customs held on this festival differ from place to place, butthere are some common in them. First, the most famous and great tradition isholding Dragon Boat races, which are held by fishermen’s attempt to protect QuYuan’s body against attacking by fishes and other animals in the river bybeating drums and row the dragon shaped boat. Nowadays dragon boat races havebeen an annual popular sport activity among people. In addition, making andeating Zongzi—a dumpling made of glutinous rice and wrapped in bamboo or reedleaves—is also a popular custom during this day. It can be made by many kindsof stuffing. What’s more, hanging herbs on the front door, drinking realgarwine and pasting up picture of Zhongkui—a mythic guardian figure in ancientchina—are also popular during the festival, which are mean to protect peoplefrom evil and disease.
这个传统习俗不同的地方有不同的庆祝方式，但也有相同的方面。首先，最出名的传统就是举行龙舟比赛，这是由渔民们举行的，通过打鼓和划龙形的船来保护屈原的身体免受鱼类和其他动物的攻击。现在龙舟赛是人们一年一度的流行的体育活动。此外，做和吃粽子——糯米面团，包着竹叶或芦苇叶，在那一天也是 一个流行的风俗。它可以由不同种类的馅料制成。还有就是，门上挂着草药，人们喝雄黄酒，在门前张贴中国古代神话人物钟馗的图片在节日期间也是很受欢迎的，做这些的意义是保护人们免受邪恶和疾病。
Thesecustoms and traditions have been changed a little in recent years, but theystill make contribution to the spread and inheritance of Chinese culture.
这些习俗和传统，在最近几年已经发生了一些变化，但他们仍然为中国文化传承与传播做贡献。
作文推荐 魔术的秘密该揭穿么？Should the Secrets Behind Magic be Disclosed?(收藏)
With a fascination with magic forcenturies, there is a heated debate about the disclosure of magic recently.Some people thirst for the revelation of the magic secrets so that they mayobtain some of the know-how and perform some magic on their own. They believethat the trend of revealing magic secrets is irresistible. But I don’t see eyeto eye with them and I insist that the secrets behind the magic should not bedisclosed.
魔术的魅力久经不衰，但是最近有一个关于是否要揭露魔术秘密的热烈争论。有些人渴望揭露魔术的秘密，这样他们就能知道怎么表演，然后自己表演魔术了。他们相信揭露魔术秘密的趋势是不可抗拒的。但是我的看法和他们不一样，我坚信魔术的秘密不该揭露出来。
I have two reasons to supportmy view. In the first place, the audience is fascinated with the magic becausethey like the feeling of being kept in suspense. If the secrets behind themagic are known to them, they would fell that the magic is nothing but a pettytrick and the magicians are ridiculous clowns rather than demigods. In thesecond place, magic requiring laborious hours and considerable money are whatthe magicians live on, so revealing the magic secrets will result in a detriment to the interest of the magicians. The magicians couldnot perform the magic that happen to be known to the audience and therefore,they have less chance to earn money.
我有两个理由来支持我的观点。第一，观众之所以感受到魔术的魅力是因为他们喜欢保持悬疑的感觉。如果魔术背后的秘密被揭穿，他们就会觉得魔术只是一些小伎俩，魔术师只是个可笑的小丑，而不是大神。第二，魔术需要魔术师长久的练习和大量的资金投入，所以如果揭露魔术的秘密就会导致魔术师利益的损失。魔术师不能表演那些观众已经知道秘密的魔术，因此，他们就没什么机会赚钱了。
To sum up, the secrets behind magic shouldnot be revealed with both of the audience and the magicians taken into account.
总而言之，魔术背后的秘密不应该被揭露出来，无论是观众还是魔术师本人。
大学生作文分享 公共演讲的好处 Benefits of Public Speaking(收藏)
Public speaking is bothinteresting and challenging. It is interesting because it asks you to come to abetter understanding of human nature and human communication. It is challengingbecause it asks you to take a risk, to put yourself in a situation where youcan succeed or fail in your effort to make a difference. As you go further,however, you will find more benefits of public speaking go beyond learning howto express yourself orally. The process of your speaking improves suchpractical skills as the following:
公众演讲既有趣也有挑战性。有趣是因为它要求你去更好地理解人的本质与人与人之间的沟通。它具有挑战性是因为它要求你承担风险，要把自己置身于经过你的努力既可能成功也可能失败的情况下。但是，如果你进行得更深入，你会发现公众演讲更有益于学习如何用口头表达自己。你的演讲过程提高了以下的一些技能如实践技能：
1. Organizational Skills
组织能力
The ability to organize ideas isa skill you will employ before you ever write a speech. As you practice, youwill also discover that the organizational skills are so essential in composingspeeches because it requires your skills of outlining, planning, organizing andpresenting your ideas logically.
组织能力是在写演讲稿之前就会使用的一种技能。在你练习的时候，你也会发现组织能力对于演讲是如此重要，因为它需要概述，规划，组织，有逻辑的表达自己的能力。
2. Writing Skills
写作能力
Many of the skills you use tocompose good speeches are the same as those you need to write well. Thepractice you gain preparing speeches will improve your ability to express yourideas on paper. You will learn how to get your audience’s attention, how toorganize your ideas clearly, and how to find more evidences to support your ideas.These skills will be beneficial to your writing.
许多用于撰写演讲的技巧和写好作文的技巧是一样的。在准备演讲前的练习会提高你在纸上的表达能力。你会学会如何获取听众的注意力，如何清楚地组织你的想法，如何找到更多的证据来支持你的观点。这些技巧将有助于你的写作。
3. Critical Thinking
批判思考能力
As we know, it’s important to guidestudents to think and to analyze. Public speaking skills and related listeningskills provide valuable tools for the critical analysis of ideas. By studyingthe use of supportive materials and persuasive strategies, you’ll learn how tofind an argument’s weak points and learn to ask questions, which needs greatcritical thinking.
我们都知道引导学生思考和分析是很重要的。公众演讲技巧及相关听的技巧对批判性分析想法提供了有价值的工具。通过学习支持资料和有说服力策略的使用，您将学习如何找到论据的薄弱点，学会问问题，这需要很强的批判性思维。
4. Research Skills
调查能力
Often, when students are asked toprepare a report, they go to the library or search the Internet to look for thereference books or articles they need. You will get into contact with a varietyof research materials and select something most valuable to you.
通常，当学生被要求准备一份报告的时候，他们会去去图书馆或上网找他们需要的参考书或文章。你将接触到各种研究材料并找到一些对你最宝贵的东西。
5. Listening Skills
聆听技巧
Speaking and listening go hand inhand. Whenever someone gives a speech, there is an audience to listen to it. Bylearning good speaking techniques, you’ll prepare speeches within audience’sunderstanding. You will also learn how to listen to other speakers in order tohear all the key points.
听说齐头并进。每当有人演讲时，都有观众在听。通过学习良好的演讲技巧，你会准备在听众理解范围之内的演讲。为了听得到所有的重点您还将学习如何倾听他人的演讲。
6. Strain Capacity
应变能力
Giving a speech to a group ofpeople involves a great deal of risk. However, it is true that by learning howto give a speech in front of a group, your self-confidence will grow, which helpsyou to confident enough to communicate with others and adapt to differentsituations. To a large extent, success in life depends on your ability to adaptto your environment and feel good about yourself.
给一群人做演讲涉及的风险很大。但是，这是真的，通过学习如何给在人群前演讲，你的自信心就会增强，这有助于你有足够的信心与他人沟通，适应不同的情况。在很大程度上，生活中的成功取决于你对环境的适应能力以及自我感觉良好程度上。
大学生作文分享 空巢老人Life of Empty-nesters(收藏)
With the deepening of the aging of society, there are a growing number of empty-nesters, which has become a social problem can not be ignored. When the children leave home due to reasons such as work, study, marriage, leaving their middle-aged parents at home, empty-nesters will produce the symptoms of mental disorders, known as the family “empty-nest”syndrome.
随着社会老年化的加深，空巢老人的数量也越来越多，这已经成为了不容忽视的社会问题。当孩子们由于工作，学习，婚姻等原因离开家，留下中年父母在家的时候，空巢老人产生精神障碍症状，也称为家庭“空巢”综合征。
Some empty-nesters can live a good life after retire, especially those in city. Most of them live in the same city with their children so that they can visit each other often. Besides, they can participate in various group activities. For example, some middle-aged people attend to universities for the elderly for further study, while others join the choir or some other public service activities. By these activities, empty-nesters can eliminate of loneliness and realize their own values.
有的空巢老人退休后可以过上很好的生活，尤其是那些城市里的。他们大部分都和孩子住在同一个城市，这样就可以经常看望彼此。此外，他们还可以参加各种各样的集体活动。比如，有的中年人参加老年大学进一步进行学习，而其他人则参加合唱团喝着一些其他公共服务活动。通过参加这些活动，空巢老人可以消除孤独，意识到自己的价值。
While in rural area, situations get worse. Most young people work in city, leaving their elderly parents at home to take care of themselves. In rural area, there are much less activities for elderly so that they are busy with the farm work all the day. And some elderly look after their grand-children, which is the main task for elderly in the country.
From the description above, we can know that some elderly people can live a good life although they’re empty-nesters. However, it’s our responsibility to care for our parents and our care is what they really need in life. So, no matter how busy you are, remember to care about them, talk to them frequently.
而在农村地区，情况越来越糟。大部分年轻人在城市工作，把他们年长的父母留在家让他们自己照顾自己。在农村地区，老年活动更少，因而他们一整天都忙于农活。而且有的老人要照看孙子，这成为了农村老人的一项主要任务。从以上的描述我们可以知道，有的老人可以过得很好，尽管他们是空巢老人。然而，照顾老人是我们的责任，他们生活上真正需要的是我们的照顾。因此，不管你有多忙，记得要照顾他们，经常和他们聊天。